I have a few questions that have gone unanswered for some time now.
Are Trix really for kids?
Are Lucky Charms really lucky?
and finally, is soldering really what di young gal want?
But seriously, Why are some men convinced that women are delighted by rough sex. Is it the sound effects of naked flesh slapping against each other? Is it the painful cries that are misjudged as sounds of pleasure? Or perhaps men are entranced by the temporary paralysis experience by women after the “category 5 hurricane” as devastated it’s victim and left them for dead?
Back in the days this lascivious exchange was described as “soldering” but in recent time men have become more creative with their description of the encounter as “”daggering, hundred stab, cuff caff, thump up” and whole host of others. Following this reinvention of the sacred act of sex, women’s vaginae have also been reclassified to represent inanimate objects such “taxi punani, ukku bit, glammity, gumption, etc.” Whilst these are somewhat humorous, it reinforces the lack of care with which some men approach their partners.
Some men use rough sex to overcompensate for a small dick! Lets be real. Some of these men’s egos are far larger and even harder than their genitals. It seems as if some of these egos have developed erectile tissues as after their poor performances they walk around beating their chest like alpha guerrillas.
I have taken up the onus to nominate Tanya Stephens’ song as my motto “yuh nuh ready fi dis yet bwoy.” Men who aim to please can be officially classified as endangered species some men continue to see women as walking vaginae, if that be the case, should we give ourselves a tap on the clitoris because of course “a yah so nice”
Men need to be cognizant of the fact that not all women like the bedroom bullies. What happen to the days when the aim of a man was to please and not destroy, to be proud of the look of contentment on his woman’s face after a serving of the cool and deadly?
Though women may be shy and allow you to take the lead, if you ask they will tell you what they like or prefer. Remember that sex is supposed to unleash pleasure for both persons involved so don’t assume that “soldering a weh di young gal want”